Ellis tries again!

Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

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Great to hear, Ellis! It sounds like you are in a good vibe with your habits!
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Thanks all! :)

Another green week, but with 1 NW S-day on Monday. Initially, I didn’t want to make it an S-day, but it was a work trip and I had no idea what to expect food-wise.

That morning I had a stomach ache and decided to skip breakfast. At the location, we were served cake, and I felt lots of pressure to say no, so I decided to just enjoy the piece, luckily my stomach ache was over. Unfortunately, it wasn’t that great of a cake, so I immediately regretted it.

Lunch was very disappointing too, and I got home so late in the evening that I ended up eating leftover pancakes. Not really S-day worthy, except for the pancakes, haha.

The rest of the week went well, still had a couple of heavier meals and ordered in once, but I did my best to keep portions small. To my delight, I had lost a little bit of weight this morning. It always goes slowly for me, but there is progress! 8)

Work is really chaotic, and a team member was unexpectedly let go, which definitely had an impact. :cry: Despite the stress, I didn’t have any red days because of it. I’m looking forward to my S-days, and I’m going to try to eat more mindfully. I find the hunger scale really helpful! Before a meal, you choose where you are on the hunger scale, and after eating, you pick the number that reflects how full you feel. I’m hoping this will help me avoid overeating. Very curious to see how it goes!
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Well done on your loss and a successful week.

The hunger scale is worthy of attention, let us know how you get on.


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You get extra bonus points for staying green despite all the work stress! :mrgreen:
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Thanks, Soprano, for the support!
Amy, thanks for the bonus points, I was definitely very proud! 8)

Today is a red day, but I’m quite proud that I didn’t act on the WTH mindset. The thought of taking advantage of this day crossed my mind briefly, but I didn’t really feel the need.

It was a tiring day, but the morning went well. My protein shake keeps me full, and yet I still overate a bit during the shared lunch at the office. Everything is right there in front of me, and it tasted good. I ate a bit more than usual. But aside from that, I stuck to my diet plan — had the dinner I planned and nothing extra. So actually, quite a successful red day, haha. Mark it and move on! :P

I weighed myself today and I was heavier than last Wednesday, and that affected me. I’m really trying to let it go, but something in me keeps saying this isn’t working and that I should switch to another diet. But I don’t want to. ;)
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Hey

Well done on your red day, you really held it together.

Do you weigh every day?

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Hi Ellis - You are doing wonderfully well, especially with (not in spite of!) your red day. Well done on avoiding the WTH quicksand! That is a fantastic victory and pride in that accomplishment should absolutely swamp any disappointment you feel about a technically red day. I know weighing slightly more than last week feels discouraging but I'm sure it will be only a temporary bump, given that you're focusing on sticking to good and healthful habits. You can do it! Wishing you all the best, WINhappy
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Good job on your red day! Progress, not perfection... :mrgreen:
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Amy3010 wrote: Tue May 05, 2026 8:12 am Good job on your red day! Progress, not perfection... :mrgreen:
Love this 😀
Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.
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