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Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

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Yeah, I'm working on the exercise, doing pilates once a week at the moment and trying to run every other day. Lots of strange pains in my ankles though.
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Day 53, 54, 55: SUCCESS

Day 56: FAILURE

Had a bit too much iced tea with the evil sugary syrupy stuff. Some days I'll allow it, but yesterday definitely seemed unacceptable.
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Day 57, 58: SUCCESS (s-days)
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Day 1-4 SUCCESS

Forgot to restart the count.
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Day 5: SUCCESS

Had a couple of extra bananas, but I think that's allowable given that I was feeling very shaky. Might need to add a regular snack on days when I go running.
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Why do you reset at every failure? Sounds rather counter-productive to me.
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Dunno, I just like keeping track of how long I can go successfully.
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Wow M!
53 successful days in a row????
You are my hero!!! :mrgreen:

Hope you have a great week :)
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Week's not going well so far, will see how it goes.

I seem to be able to get up to about 2 months then fail.

My definition of what counts as failure is *relatively* solid, although I do waver slightly on a few borderline things.
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Pondering trying something on top of No-S, like weightwatchers or something. Not sure though - getting a lot of exercise at the moment, hopefully that'll have good effects soon.
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Well M.. If I may be so bold.. I really think you really should focus on how many Successes you have.. Sounds like you expect perfection from yourself..
Two months and then a failure sounds fantastic to me!!!

Weight watchers will bore the crap out of you..
You will hate it!!!
Trust me! LOL.. :wink:
Just try to pick more veggies and less "funny stuff" and up your water...

You never really write that much so I have no idea how much weight you want to lose, and how much you have lost...
Maybe you're just on a plateau...

Please! Do yourself a favor and give yourself a great big hand for your great work!
I'm sure, though people might not want to admit it, that plenty of us have more than one failure in 2 months straight..

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You are my hero!

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Day 10: SUCCESS

Deb - will reply when I've got more time.
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I'm measuring mostly by how thin I get :) Had a lot of initial success, but it seems to have slowed recently.

Started at about 103kg, at about 93kg now and seem stuck, want to get down somewhere around 70kg (it's not a hard target, but BMI suggests somewhere around there would be a healthy weight for me).

Exercise is my focus at the moment, doing running and pilates when I get the chance.

Pilates is great - I can see Yoga working too, but I talked to a RSI mailing list and they thought Pilates was less likely to make me worse.
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Oh, and been having a bit of a problem with growing caffeine consumption lately. It's not yet a big problem, but it is worrying me.

It's not really no-s, but I tend to avoid it because my preferred forms are xpensive, as reinhard says diet drinks can do weird things to your appetite, and too much of it keeps me awake at night!
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Day 19: SUCCESS

(okay, it was a massive pizza, but it all more or less balanced on one plate without touching the table)
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Day 20: SUCCESS

I had what I think was a dream that I'd failed.
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That's funny. I've had failure dreams, too. Maybe you should keep 2 counts, one for waking life and the other for the unconscious :-)

I love that you're keeping a running count. I think it's a good self disciplinary technique. I'd probably do it myself if I weren't utterly confident in my ability to no-s at this point. And you've had some very impressive runs!

Congrats (I hope) on making it to 21 today and looking forward to a new record,

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Day 22: SUCCESS

Paid a fortune for fancy choc for the weekend - not worth it.
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Day 26: SUCCESS

Off on holiday for a week.
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Day 26-36: SUCCESS

Bit of a glutton while I was on holiday, but I'm happy with that I think.
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Hi M!
Hope you had a lovely vaca!
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It was good. I went to the Shetland Islands - http://www.visitshetland.com/. Very relaxing, and a beautiful place.
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Not sure how I've been doing the last few days. Had a few lattes, which I'd normally count as a failure, but I also feel somewhat shit.
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Day 36-44: SUCCESS

Had a cold, so needed lots of nourishment :(
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Sorry for your shite feeling!!!
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Feeling a lot better now, lingering cough.

Still doing Pilates 2-3 times a week, it's good stuff.
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Day 45,46: SUCCESS

Still allowing myself cough sweets. Yes, they're sugary.
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Hi M!
If you want to help kick a cough, then stay away from all dairy, since that increases the mucous...

It's nasty tasting, but there's also and herb in extract form you might want to try.. It's called Horehound!
But in choosing nasty taste over lingering cough, I'd pick the first...
Also, lemons and water, a great decongestant...

Feel better!
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I'm a big fan of sage tea & honey.

But I like dairy! Maybe I should try to cut down for a few days...

I'll keep an eye out for horehound but I don't think I've seen it in shops.
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Day 47: SUCCESS

I wish pilates instructors would give clearer instructions.
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Feel guilty today after having a latte (ordered a filter coffee and got the wrong thing).
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Unhappy with recent standards so I'm declaring a new leaf and a new count.

Going to try one-S-per-day at weekends.
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Day 1: SUCCESS
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Day 4-7: SUCCESS

One luxury a day at the weekends seems a good strategy to avoid eating far too much and feeling ill, which I've been doing.
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Day 9, 10: SUCCESS

Got to watch the tea intake (although it's not part of nos obviously)
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Day 12: SUCCESS

Snack was a hot chocolate and chocolate thing in starbucks.

Interesting, when I restrict myself this much I start regretting low quality calories.
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Going a bit wrong at the moment.
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Today, if successful, will be day 1.
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Day 1: SUCCESS

Have identified the decaf coffee I've been drinking for a while as bad for my digestion.
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I noticed the decaf iced tea Ive been drinking gives me issues once in awhile too.
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It seems to be not so bad with normal decaff coffee, I've been drinking this hippy stuff with barley and strange things and no real coffee at all, and that's really bad.
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Day 2: SUCCESS
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mstevens wrote:I've been drinking this hippy stuff with barley and strange things and no real coffee at all, and that's really bad.
Sounds ghastly.
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It tastes alright, but I find, umm, if you drink too much you discover an amazing new source of natural gas.
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I'm really impressed with your determination and high standards. Keep it up!
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I've been getting slack lately. But I shall not give up!
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WOO friggin HOO!!! Keep up all those success days!! YAY
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Thanks!

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Day 13: SUCCESS

Off work for the next two weeks, so technically holiday, but will try not to overdo it.
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off holiday, gets harder again tomorrow.
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Day 29: SUCCESS

Feeling a bit crap at the moment, I thinK I need to cut out the caffeine, get more sleep, eat better...
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Day 30: SUCCESS

Feeling a bit better today, I think getting back into a sensible diet and routine is helping.
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Trying artificial sweeteners for tea.
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